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      <image:title>Blog - Do What You Can … - A brand new Indonesian restaurant just opened a week earlier.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Bali Asian Cuisine</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Do What You Can … - I came home thankful.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>May you find things you can do, just where you are, with whatever it is that you have at hand.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Turning my first book, So Many Africas, into an audio book!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Drank water. Read some more.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>and walked away feeling a little sad to be finished.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Audio Book: A Dream Come True - Autumn House Press designed a new cover,</image:title>
      <image:caption>adding the book’s two awards in bright gold seals.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Audio Book: A Dream Come True - Happy Listening from me and Marty and Absolute Studios</image:title>
      <image:caption>and Autumn House Press! I can’t thank you all enough!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>They grew lanky and long and fell over. They produced little.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We all have limitations. We all have needs.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>April is here.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In my wildest of dreams, I never imagined this!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>North Dakota News.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Something new for me began germinating a year ago.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Happy to finish a painting this week!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I was watering my cactus orchid and moved it slightly</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>~ Margaret Sangster</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Those four words gave me a lot to chew on.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>It’s hard to say, “It is what it is.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>For so very much.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>How do I live?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Theses words steady me.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Diagnosis, Two-Year Anniversary, Plus a Vacation! - As the fabulous author Kate Bowler says,</image:title>
      <image:caption>“Life hurts and life is so beautiful.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>His sentences began with “When you can ...”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Then, I came to a conclusion.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I’m throwing all the weight of those impossible possibilities thrown to the wind.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I am not who I used to be.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - A Change of Focus - I often choose a ‘word of the year’ each January 1.</image:title>
      <image:caption>This year, I couldn’t find a word that seemed to fit.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Writing is both job and art, work and passion.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Why had we worked in Zambia? Did we accomplish anything after all those years?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>What did it mean to build a family across cultures and languages? What did it mean to be a daughter-in-law?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Book Number Three in the Making - Then about a month ago, I woke up with the need to understand what happened.</image:title>
      <image:caption>What went wrong after my surgery?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Book Number Three in the Making - I am reminded of Yusef Komunyakaa’s words,</image:title>
      <image:caption>“Don’t write what you know. Write what you are willing to discover.”</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2022-11-22</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>was unlike anything I’ve ever done!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>and how I did.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>what I’ve noticed!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>November 21 to December 10</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - New Therapies, Old Loves, and A Request - My brain has forgotten how to differentiate peripheral — unimportant noises — from essential ones.</image:title>
      <image:caption>I hear everything!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - New Therapies, Old Loves, and A Request - On a walk, I can handle the dog barking next door.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Each bark slamming my brain into a wall.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - New Therapies, Old Loves, and A Request - Next week I’ll be doing a program called Berard.</image:title>
      <image:caption>It’s an auditory integration training developed by Dr. Guy Berard.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - New Therapies, Old Loves, and A Request - Would you think of me these coming two weeks?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Send up a prayer? Send good vibes and thoughts my way?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I have a soft spot in my heart for libraries. As a child the Valley City Library was one of my happy places.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - New Therapies, Old Loves, and A Request - Love always,</image:title>
      <image:caption>Jill</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2022-09-26</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Monday Sept. 26th. 7:00 p.m. Central Time Zone.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2022-09-22</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Loneliness, sorrow, and vast tracks of confusion.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - After the Grief - And I’m wondering.</image:title>
      <image:caption>What is it that replaces the grief once it begins to abate?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - After the Grief - Equanimity best describes what I’m learning.</image:title>
      <image:caption>A sort of balance and calm.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - After the Grief - It hasn’t been easy to find equanimity.</image:title>
      <image:caption>We have an aversion to seeing our lives changed.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - After the Grief - Just as autumn days and nights are equaling out,</image:title>
      <image:caption>so my life is finding a new balance.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2022-08-31</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - A Good Summer - My life has been following an unasked for path. Unwanted and unanticipated.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Yet, many of us live with the unwanted.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - A Good Summer - This summer, doing yoga has become progressively easier.</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m even a friend of the Down Dog again. My head below my hips and I’m able to tolerate it. My Dog and I are quite happy to be reunited!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - A Good Summer - What remains the most difficult, is the continual perception</image:title>
      <image:caption>that my brain thinks it’s on a dance floor!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - A Good Summer - I have learned many things this past year and a half.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Life can be a slog, but I am not alone.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2022-07-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Day My Skin Returned - I should write science fiction.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Be a writer for the Dr. Who series.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Day My Skin Returned - I’ve had a really difficult time, since my injury, being out in the wind.</image:title>
      <image:caption>It just makes me crazy.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Day My Skin Returned - I walked around feeling the wind on my legs, and face, and arms. Feeling the warmth of the sun on my back. Feeling the movement of my clothes blowing.</image:title>
      <image:caption>And I knew myself as a whole unit.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Day My Skin Returned - I told my physical therapist about it, and she smiled brightly.</image:title>
      <image:caption>“You’re still healing!” she said.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Day My Skin Returned - Yesterday, with my newfound freedom from the wind,</image:title>
      <image:caption>I went to a yoga session. Outside in a park!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Day My Skin Returned - “The universe is big. It’s vast and complicated and ridiculous. And sometimes, very rarely, impossible things just happen and we call them miracles.”</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2022-06-29</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - My Beautiful Brain and a New Ritual - It’s been a year and a half since a post-surgical brain blood clot changed my life.</image:title>
      <image:caption>It’s been four months since I’ve blogged about it. Some things have changed. (My hair is longer!) Some have not.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - My Beautiful Brain and a New Ritual - I’ve fallen in love with several new writers</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - My Beautiful Brain and a New Ritual - My hubby and I have started a new ritual.</image:title>
      <image:caption>We fall asleep each night like this:</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - My Beautiful Brain and a New Ritual - We go back and forth listing our “wins”.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Big or small. Mostly teeny-tiny.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - My Beautiful Brain and a New Ritual - Wins the Past Four Months</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - My Beautiful Brain and a New Ritual - May you fall asleep remembering your wins.</image:title>
      <image:caption>May you wake up to hope. May you be held in gentle kindness today.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - The book launch party for The Clean Daughter was everything I dreamed it would be!</image:title>
      <image:caption>I even wore cool matching beach shoes to celebrate the day!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - The day started off with doing my nails. I used Dashing Diva and they worked great!</image:title>
      <image:caption>(If you know me, is not an every day common occurrence!)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When people walked in they could sign up for one of two door prizes! Then head over to coffee and Dutch candy and cookies.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - Just when everything looked ready, a friend came in.</image:title>
      <image:caption>She gifted me with two of her thrift store finds!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - There was Dutch ‘school chalk candy’ to eat.</image:title>
      <image:caption>It’s a white minty candy filled with black licorice!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - Dutch stroopwafels were a hit, too!</image:title>
      <image:caption>Chewy waffle outside and filled with ‘stroop’ a type of syrup.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - Melanie, owner of Mosaic District, and fellow writing club member, gave me a sweet warm-hearted introduction.</image:title>
      <image:caption>I wore my cool blue and white shoes, and even found a matching water bottle at a thrift store!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - The room was packed with people and filled with laughter.</image:title>
      <image:caption>And just look at the art hanging in that room!!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - One of my guests wore a dress in honor of the blue and white Delft book jacket design!</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - I gave away two door prizes! Very exciting!!</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - Standing room only!</image:title>
      <image:caption>Thanks to everyone who came and filled the room!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - After talking and a Q&amp;A, it was off to sign books!</image:title>
      <image:caption>Such a joy to be handing my story out into the world!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - Near the end of the evening my hubby put on traditional Dutch farmer shoes - wooden Klompen - and paraded around a bit.</image:title>
      <image:caption>These used to belong to one of my sons. So hubby had to squish his toes up a little.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - Thanks to all those who made the time to come! I sincerely appreciated it.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Thanks also to all those who couldn’t come but showed support in so many ways.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - The night of the party was such a ‘good’ day in so many ways.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Launch Party! - So many wonderful memoires made. And these three thrift store finds, to keep in remembrance of a fine, fine evening.</image:title>
      <image:caption>The beautiful Delft plate was a thrifted gift from my daughter who attended the event and also gave me some potted grape hyacinths!</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2022-04-19</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Books, Parties, and Sales - Here’s one happy author!</image:title>
      <image:caption>The Clean Daughter has arrived!! Huzzah!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Books, Parties, and Sales - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Books, Parties, and Sales - Where and How to Buy</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Books, Parties, and Sales - If you live in the F/M area, come and join me at the</image:title>
      <image:caption>Book Launch Celebration Party!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Two more events coming up!</image:caption>
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